less misguided thinkpieces on “maybe butch is becoming a less popular identity because society is becoming ~more q***r~/less about restrictive labels/etc”, more pieces on how constant hatred of butches from within both the general lgbt community and even the lesbian community specifically actively drives self doubt/hate within butches and pushes us away from being comfortable identifying as butch
it always amazes me when a man says he doesn’t know how to iron, wash his clothes, or cook. Like, don’t you feel embarrassed saying that…smfh
All the people in the comments saying “they were never taught how” can somehow learn how to speak dorthraki and watch YouTube to learn how to make a furry suit but can’t use the internet’s infinite resources to learn to wash their underwear got me fucked up
So I was writing a small paper in Microsoft Word and the program suddenly crashed (I saved a couple minutes before, thank god) and I get this message in the corner of my screen two seconds afterward
even counter culture has looped back around to only valuing women, especially fictional women, as romantic and sexual objects to the point where anything that isn’t a human woman is made into a human woman to be a “goth gf”
