Category: Non classé

tygerofaera:

properfeminism:

trans girl: *exhibits traits traditionally regarded as “feminine”*

terfs: stop contributing to gender stereotypes! real FEMALES dont have to wear dresses/makeup/have long hair/etc to be girls!!!

trans girl: *doesn’t conform to traditionally “feminine” traits*

terfs: SEE???!!! PROOF that MALES are MALE SOCIALIZED and exhibit MALE TRAITS. how can you be a woman when youre OBVIOUSLY acting like a MALE

We can add TERF’s calling trans women or girls Autogynephiles if they ever take a selfie they don’t hate.

furiousgoldfish:

me when having a trauma episode: This is just what my life is now. I will never be okay. I will never be normal. I’m damaged and ruined too much for anything. I’ll never be healthy. What they did to me destroyed me. I will suffer for as long as I live.

me when I’m having a good day: I have done it, I have achieved a good life, everything is fun and life is endless possibilities maybe I will climb mountains today nothing is out of reach!! Also I will not be in a single bad mood ever again!

furiousgoldfish:

shit abusive parents can make you feel permanently guilty and ashamed about:

  • resting
  • eating
  • sleeping
  • talking
  • not reacting immediately and running when your name is called
  • not showing face expression they want to see on you
  • not replying immediately to them
  • not looking a certain way
  • existing in clothing they would dissaprove of
  • being anything less than perfect at something
  • existing in a messy room
  • laughing
  • being excited
  • crying
  • feeling pain in any visible way
  • showing any emotion that would put attention to you
  • showing any kind of emotion that is not convenient to them
  • showing trauma symptoms
  • showing any kind of trace of abuse they inflicted on you
  • being yourself
  • getting hurt
  • getting sick
  • being mentally ill
  • being unable to withstand some kind of pain or discomfort
  • refusing to withstand provocation
  • not willing to tolerate insults, humiliation and shaming
  • defending yourself when attacked
  • defending yourself against physical abuse
  • having human needs
  • requiring some sort of resources to survive
  • taking space
  • having wants and desires
  • showing anything but obedience and respect to those who never deserved it
  • wanting freedom
  • wanting control over your time, your body, your life
  • wanting to be cared about
  • having your own point of view
  • having your own opinion
  • not killing yourself
  • existing