the whole point of lesbianism is that you’re not interested in men both romantically and sexually like guys i dont know how to say this but…. comphet exists but it feels awkward (been here done that) and youre frightened and dont want actually a goddamn relationship with that man & attraction is supposed to feel good so………….. its okay to be bi & its okay to be bi and want to exclusively date women but……………. you can’t………. be both…………………………. like if you feel you’d like to date and/or have sex with a man (dont get me wrong – trans women arent included under this statement) then you’re not a lesbian and its okay!!!!!!! the root of the specific kind of oppression that is lesbophobia is that we’re not fucking disposable to men, thats like……. the thing with being a lesbian………… and its super nice to be bi…………….. like………… w h y