Noah fence but any time I’ve seen someone say shit along the lines of “oh people in [x country] don’t make such a big deal about infidelity, they’re not such uptight moralists about sex” it almost always means “the husband/bf is free to cheat and fuck around all he wants, and the wife/gf better shut up and smile about it if she wants to show she’s a smart Cool Girl who isn’t hysterical and bitchy.”
Oh wait how did I forget “people aren’t such uptight moralists about sex, they’re more chill” also meaning that it’s OK for artsy/intellectual white dudes to fuck 13 year old girls