i don’t trust people who say “you can have sex with people you aren’t attracted to if it makes them happy!” cause that rhetoric literally sounds like every ‘ex-gay’ guy i’ve ever heard of desperately trying to enjoy the dispassionate, uncomfortable sex he has with his wife and it makes me sick to my stomach. if you’re unattracted to someone then PLEASE don’t have sex with them! from experience, as a gay guy who’s forced himself into sex with women, it’s an uncomfortable chore at best and literally traumatizing at worst. don’t force yourself to have sex with someone if you’re literally incapable of enjoying it, and never ADVISE someone to do it to themselves. seriously, don’t.
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