nice followers please help a dyke choose their new hobby

epicene-street-light:

epicene-street-light:

epicene-street-light:

i thought about taking fencing lessons at uni but turns out i can’t. 

like if i should play the harp again

reply if i should take fencing lessons elsewhere

thanks xoxo

poll ending at midnight!

4 votes for fencing

1 for the harp

guess whos gonna be a REAL SWORD LESBIAN (until midnight nothing’s certain tho). vote now to have a significant impact on a stranger’s life!

aaaaand with an overwhelming result of 8 replies, fencing wins! 

thank you for your help & encouragement im VERY bad a sports in general, lets see how this will turn out!

i spent so much time in MOGAI spaces when i was younger i def thought i was an asexual genderfluid or something, had memorized 50+ variations of otherkin identities & flags, while im just a traumatized butch??? and im literally just starting to learn about my own culture and had never heard about butch/femme identities lmao MOGAI was a Big Mistake 

boxorino:

pom-seedss:

atreefullofstars:

reading-wanderer:

babyboomerbullshit:

whyyyyy do we need cursive anywayyyy

Most people don’t even use cursive for signatures. Eventually, they all just dissolve into squiggles.

Plus Some people’s cursive can be pretty unreadable even when they do put in the effort.

Oh noooooooo, society is chaaaaaaanging, what will we dooooooo~???

I was taught cursive, told I would need it in high school when we started writing essays.

Teachers didn’t accept anything in cursive. By the end of highschool teachers were not accepting hand-written essays and everything had to be typed. Though, they assured me cursive would probably be a thing in university because you have to write essays in class sometimes too and wouldn’t have access to computer to type it up.

In university, we were warned, that cursive can be a faster method of writing, but harder to make legible when writing quickly. We were warned if the professor couldn’t easily and quickly tell what we were saying, it would count as not having written anything. This included in-class exam essays on a time limit. So no one used cursive.

So while I was constantly being assured that cursive would be very useful when I grew up, it only became increasingly obsolete.

Why would we continue to teach obsolete skills? Why waste the time?

That being said… kids are exposed to a lot of different fonts… some of which are cursive. I think they can figure it out.

cursive is more of an art form than it is a way of life now a days and i appreciate the beauty of the script but its not practical unless you can do it really well and quickly for anything school related tbh.

i just heard a psychiatrist say on the radio that “patients in psychiatric hospitals are treated with humanity and kindness”. like we’re not completely dehumanized. like they don’t let a man yell and kick the walls for the entire night because he’s anxious when he’s alone. like one of my friends didn’t get raped when she was hospitalized. by a NURSE. like they didn’t put a young female patient i was friends with in a terrifying closed room with handcuffs and a 92 years old woman with dementia because i told the staff she had received rape threats. meanwhile, the rapist? the guy who constanlty touched us without our consent? the guy who said homophobic horrors to me? they just let him stay in his comfortable room, with a good bed, and an open door. 

but yes. tell me about how humane and empathetic you are in psychiatric structures, “doctor”. 

epicene-street-light:

i really am the most serious person out there i cant comprehend jokes and shit and like why people like to dance and basically i know how to survive life-endangering situations and heavy abuse but i have no clue on how to have fun which is why im a terrible friend. like im pretty good at listening and shit but going out? having fun??? i dont know how to do this without intellectualizing everything and Thats Not How You Have Fun Babey

like im not even a goth but all the things im obsessed with are so fucking serious/dark/macabre and….. i cant see the point of light things even tho i know theyre important for mental health & they make people feel good. like im nothing but the void with blood and a voice thats shrieking with sadness or pain i can’t do anything about it, im trying but i can’t apparently