A reactionary cis male politician obviously making a mockery of trans womahood to be misogynistic is evidence of ~*Genderist Ideology*~ getting out of hand and not…a cis male making a mockery of trans womanhood to be misogynistic.
Marilyn Monroe and Don Murray promoting BUS STOP (1957).
Said Don Murray later: “The first time I saw her, actually it was for some publicity shots. She came on to the Twentieth-Century Fox outdoor set and they introduced us: ‘Don, this is Marilyn.’ Hello, hello. ‘Now pick her up and put her on your shoulder.’ I had no chance to say hello, you know. It was that kind of introduction. And she was in make-up for the film, which is a white, pasty, very clown-like make-up.”
“you know i had to do it to em” is like almost two years old at this point and it still hasnt gotten old, other memes just die but “you know i had to do it to em” remains so iconic that i cant even look at a picture of a sidewalk without expecting the caption or without thinking “he could’ve done it to them here but he chose not to”
In 2019 we grow from sex positivity to sex responsibility, meaning we:
call out shitty people who are just abusers and using kink/polyamory to mask it and stop supporting them
recognize that sometimes hypersexuality can be a form a self-harm for some people
keep kinks and fetishes in appropriate spaces and not bringing them out into general public spaces and thereby involving people in scenes they aren’t consenting to
understand that some fetishes are inherently unhealthy and some illegal to actually engage in for good reason and ignoring that is irresponsible at best