I have zero sympathy for men who suffer from their own masculinity when women are always the primary victims. The man who has meaningless sex and can’t form a connection is treating women like sex dolls who exist to service him and solve his intimacy problems. The man who is violent and has anger issues takes it out on his wife and children, and their physical suffering will always be greater than whatever smidge of regret he feels. Honestly It’s like they forget or don’t believe that women experience feelings of anger, inferiority, emotional disconnect etc. except we don’t go around hurting people and then expecting special treatment. And half the time these men don’t want to change, they just wish they could do bad things and have bad attitudes towards women without feeling guilty about it.
“some fantasies are just fantasies” serial rapist marc o’leary has spoken publicly about how watching return of the jedi at age five and seeing a heavily sexualized princess leia in chains led him to fantasize about bondage and rape at a young age and eventually influenced his decision to bind and gag his victims as an adult so let’s not pretend for one single second that onscreen depictions of misogynistic violence are “just fantasies” that don’t actively endanger the lives of real women
Fantasies!! Do not!! Develop!! In!! A vacuum!! They don’t spontaneously generate!! I hate that “fantasies are just fantasies” argument because /goddamn/, are you not even interested in asking yourself where your fantasies are coming from?? Like… Men are just… willing to accept, at face value, that the suffering of women is titillating to them? How??
ok but maybe??? not every rainbow??? is automatically gay???? like please just let people enjoy refractions of light without being like “ITS GAY” please??
