i really am an extremely patient and lenient person when it comes down to a lot of things but nothing sets me off and makes me cut off someone more than someone with a toxic mindset who’s entire outlook is “I’m an awful person and im unable to change to be a more tolerable person whatsoever” like. you’re not a character in a story and no one else is gonna write you a redemption arc and character development. you absolutely are in charge of how you interact with people and ARE capable of choosing kindness and generosity and people who say otherwise scare the fuck out of me and I refuse to have anything to do with them
