like femme literally does not mean “any lesbian who a man would fuck given the chance” or “lesbians who look straight” or “lesbians that are still pretty” it is a very specific identity and a lot of women who are femme are still perceived as gay by straight people. and vice versa butch doesnt mean “lesbian who wears pants and has short hair” butches can look like a lot of things THEY ARE VERY COMPLEX IDENTITIES
a) The word “illegalize” does not exist within the English language, to make something illegal is called “criminalizing” it, legalizing it means to turn something illegal into a legal action