epicene-street-light:

little study tip from ur local tired and trying student

i had to study and write essays at night A LOT and came up with a little tip you might want to try: candles. I light a candle when i start studying and blow it when im done.

Cons:

– its fire. next to paper. pay attention

Pros:

– you feel less alone

– smells good

– when you need to focus you can look at it instead of ur phone (really helps)

– makes you feel like some old time Scholar studying at the light of a candle

– can help mesuring time. for example: i used small candles that are supposed to last 4hrs when writing an essay that i was supposed to write in max. 4hrs during finals

– if u hear some noise in ur apartment u can take it with you like some gothic novel protagonist

– when ur done it smells like a birthday party and really, finishing writing an essay at 2AM feels like something u should celebrate

thanks for coming to my ted talk and good luck fellow students

justsomeantifas:

how-to-be-a-sad-bitch:

justsomeantifas:

lesbophobia is so prevalent it’s a meme that we women don’t even know if we’re dating each other because we’re so afraid of being seen as predatory 

I literally refuse to flirt with women because I never want to ever come onto someone unwanted. I never want to make a woman feel the way men make them feel

we’re so forced out of existence we don’t even allow ourselves to exist

solitakavinsky:

grumpybell:

like full offense, but why are romcoms constantly being criticized for being “unrealistic” and “too self indulgent” but action movies with impossible car stunts and huge shoot out scenes that are led by an average looking, mildly in shape man (who is somehow a practically indestructible and unbeatable fighting robot) are not? 

the answer is because romcoms are generally made for women, and women’s fantasies are never indulged by society the same way men’s are. 

she said what had to be said