zanabism:

zanabism:

everytime a survivor walks into my office it’s to tell me about how a man twice their age ruined their life forever. Lol. there’s nothing you can say to change my mind about age-gap “love”

im happy your mom goes ice climbing, but I feel what I was trying to say was missed. just because a relationship is fun and happy doesn’t mean there isn’t a power imbalance present. age, like money, is power. and it’s an imbalance of power that propagates gender based violence. age-gap relationships will always leave room for abuse, because the difference in age is a difference in power.

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