lobsterandskittles:

sadbrowngirlclub:

It’s been said before but we really need to normalise the idea of not having been in a relationship / having sex / dating before your 20’s because it is literallyyyy so young and it absolutely doesn’t make anyone weird for not having had that experience before so I don’t understand why we get off shaming people for something so common

the idea that sex is supposed to be happening and constantly sought after, no matter what, and every day that I don’t is a failure, and every time I do is a worthwhile experience (no matter if I actually enjoyed it), has been so harmful and the source of a lot of stupid shit and wasted time and energy in my life.