honestly i never really complained about my parents being homophobic bc i was convinced i was lucky they didnt straight up killed me but like,,,, it wasnt even remotely okay. but i was so used to extreme pain and abuse on their hands that it didnt… really change anything. but like… they almost kicked me out at 16 tho. and theyre only “"more accepting”“ now bc i dont live with them anymore & theyre basically… acting like decent people bc im far enough from them lmao