softheartedbutch:

softheartedbutch:

pinkhornedbutchprince:

men who continue to hit on lesbians after being told that they are lesbians, or take “no thanks i’m a lesbian” as some kind of challenge, in my experience, don’t value consent or autonomy and are usually actual sexual predators

these toxic kinds of men are a continual theme in my life as i juggle Internalized Homophobia and Trauma Responses while they toss me some Invasion of Personal Space and Power Over Me in Professional Spaces like flaming bowling pins in some kind of misogynistic traveling circus where i have to perform while the ringmaster uses a loudspeaker to shout things like “i only hit on you so you feel like part of the team” and “i had a sex dream about you but i didn’t finish”

reblogging to remind myself why i need to use my writing to get out of the kitchen and away from these men

HAY GAYZ i got a new job i start in two weeks time and i never have to see those people ever again if i don’t want to. God is real and he is a big hairy lesbian