miserablelittlesmugbastard:

someone: *introduces themselves to me*

me: *tries to determine in miliseconds if i should use my deadname or my chosen name, if this person will ever meet my family or already knows them, or see my ID, or theyre a transphobe, or if theyve met me before with my other name and forgot,*

me: hi im *turns into a basketball and rolls away*