p0tbarbie:

I’m honestly envious that y’all have never been up close and personal enough with a man to see this phenomenon in action. It’s not just rape. Men will pretend they don’t know how to do ANYTHING to get out of responsibility.

Have you ever asked a straight dude to clean something? Prepare for a grown man to tell you he “doesn’t know how” to use paper towels and a cleaning spray. With our CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS, we can surmise this dude absolutely knows how to do something as simple as spray a surface and wipe it with a god damn paper towel, and he is feigning ignorance because he doesn’t want to *have* to do it, and asking us to explain it buys him time and gives him an excuse for not having done it already

It is the same with rape. Rape is a VERY SIMPLE CONCEPT. If they don’t want sex, and sex occurs, it’s rape. It’s not complicated. If men have you convinced that they just “don’t know how” to figure out whether the woman wants sex or not, you’re getting duped. Men THRIVE under the excuse of ignorance because it pardons their deliberate fuckups. By wasting your breath explaining over and over to men “what rape is” (WHEN THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT RAPE IS), you are effectively giving them a free pass for “not having known better” in the past.

On top of that, they aren’t fucking listening! They don’t care! You’re talking to yourself. If men genuinely cared whether the woman they are fucking wanted to be fucked, they would find out beforehand. It is not rocket science guys.