why do lesbians always give their gfs such weird compliments? today i asked my gf how i looked in a new outfit and she said “like a cryptid on the moors babe” and idk what to do with that but i love it
because we know what women want??? next question
the other day in the kitchen, my gf told me “you have very convenient ears” and it was incredibly sweet but literally impossible to explain why
I always wonder if this has something to do with how weird compliments weren’t weaponized against us. When my partners call me cute or pretty, it triggers things that make me want to fight but weird things stick and get through all the trauma and self hate.
that is honestly such a good point.
Some straight people do that too. There aren’t many of us, but we exist. I’ll admit I was a little drunk but I once told my girlfriend that my goal in life was for her to “live like a cat.”
Meaning that I want her to do whatever the fuck she feels like doing all day, every day, while I work, then I come home, prepare food, and spend the rest of the evening holding her while we watch tv. Maybe stroking her hair a little. But I didn’t explain that at the time. “Live like a cat” was all the explanation I gave.
I think it’s a minor miracle that she understood and took it as the sweetest thing ever.
I wish I could make my personal posts about being a lesbian invisible to str8 men‼️