lord-kitschener:

Amazing how often women are trashed for supposedly cutting off sex once they’ve got a wedding ring out of it, while almost nothing is said about how many straight dudes think that getting a ring on her means you officially get to peace out of helping with things like housework and childcare, and doing anything whatsoever to emotionally contribute to the relationship (I don’t mean big things like a dozen roses and a €400 meal at the fanciest restaurant, just little day to day shit that shows your partner that you still like and care about them ).

Do you really think these two aren’t connected? Anyone, regardless of gender, would lose their libido quickly when they’re stuck dealing with exhaustion and lowkey emotional neglect