disastersapphic:

hey fellow nb lesbians!! you don’t actually have to explain your gender or how you identify as a lesbian to anyone! even if they’re asking nicely, it’s okay to just say that it’s not something you want to talk about. i know it can be very difficult to try to explain something like that especially if you don’t quite understand it yourself. don’t add explaining yourself to the list of things that stress you out, you’re not required to educate others! ❤

(trans///med, tru//scum, transmisogynists & ppl who don’t believe in nb lesbians pls don’t interact, you’re not really doing anyone a service by leaving annoying comments lmao)