male2bitch:

the thing is cis people are never gonna understand gender like we can. they literally can’t. their gender was natural for them, and most of them never have to think critically about what gender really is if it isn’t everything you were taught to be. even if they do, it’s not affecting their identity. they don’t know how it is to live and experience the world as another gender.

that meme about talking to cis people about gender versus trans people isn’t just a joke, it’s the damn truth, and there’s plenty of reasons of why